I need help.

I don't really want to get into too much detail, but I need your help.

I've been kind of bitchy.

To my husband.

I shouldn't be.  It's (95% of the time) mostly for no reason at all.  Sometimes he's a jerk, sure, but mostly he's good.  

I am being very disrespectful.

I used to be uber nice, didn't let the small stuff get to me, made sure I treated the ones I loved with respect and sweetness, and somehow I lost that.

I need to get it back because my husband doesn't deserve it and it's hurting our marriage.

So.  How do you make sure you aren't bitchy, or snappy, or mean for no good reason?

How do you be sure to be sweet?

Help me out ladies.